Leave him to his independence Get link Facebook X Pinterest Email Other Apps August 02, 2021 Leave him to his independence relationship 193 Likes 19 Comments Farhat Khan Fi Fi Jamieson Been there, worked my ass off while she studied. All for her to cheat on me with a classmate. Dumped her ass, got myself together and got back again from being a broken man. Met the love of my life, married her and we have three beautiful children. Bottom line, that one who’s not loyal when you have little, won’t be loyal when you have a lot. So you are better off without them. Who knows! You might be dodging a bullet here! Zack Ael Look, you probably feel betrayed, hopeless, shitty... dont be. My ex failed her exams that i paid and she said "meh, next time then." She quit 4 jobs i found for her cause "its tough". She got to choose what she wants to eat, i was paying cause her family is poor as fuck. She got whatever she wants to wear. She got new smartphone, cause old was busted and outdated. I paid her minor surgery in her hometown, after she came home she decided to leave me. She fucked some dude and after couple months she married him and they have a kid. I would knock every single teeth into her throat with a punch, i dont care about concequences. Dump his ass and dodge a bullet, you will feel shitty for a month i guarantee, but after that youll glow like a fuckin lantern. Dump his ungrateful ass. Clara Jo I hope you find someone worthy of you. Or he wakes the fuck up and realises your loyalty is priceless Jessica Canhigh I've read your answers up til now, and I guess this relationship is over the edge. If you've been together since nine years, there is hardly a way to set things right again. He's used to you caring about him and the relationship while he has to do nothing - especially cause you are so insecure that you still fear that you are needy and deserve being treated thoughtlessly. This is a serious advice: Break up. This is toxic for the both of you. He would not understand why he'd have to come out of his comfort zone after all these years, and you couldn't stand your ground with all the doubts you have. Leave him and then work on yourself. If you want a relationship on eye-height, you have to be clear about it. Talk a lot right from the beginning, make clear what you wish and what you don't want. No-one can read you thoughts. Had to learn this the hard way, too. Good luck, dear. Jake Barnes duuuuuuump that arsehole. seriously and value yourself more Mil Lhet We only accept the love we think we deserve. Juanita Lynn In guy culture this is what we call a dick move fuck that guy let him suffer and he'll know he lost something Important Carmen Helene Malou Hansson You want to talk more about this? Privately? Devonte Grant Tell him how you feel, hr might not have realized what you did, maybe its no bad intention. Nerwin De Vera Quits him. My ex was suicidal and I fought more than 8 months to keep her alive and feed her and do whatever I can like finding her treatment and an hospital and all. I lose all my friend just to take time to take care of her nearly 12h a day. As soon as she was better she just leave me with absolutely nothing and asking his new boyfriend to quit me for her It won't give anything good to stay with him Chyna Dolly Since I don't know the whole situation, my only advise is consistent communication. If your partner is unable to fairly provide you the support you need whether emotionally, physically or financially, you should have a serious discussion about it. You don't have to resolve it in straight away, but your partner should take a proactive approach to maintaining the relationship. You can try the "Best Friend" talk. Sometimes a 3rd party view of this helps. Imagine you have a best friend just like you, and your partner is another friend. What would you advise YOUR friend with the same problem? Did you partner really intend to say that, or was it a miscommunication? Good luck, OP. Stacey Baum I had something similar. Supported my partner through unemployment, a very hard apprenticeship, unfair bosses. I went above and beyond to do everything I could to help him. And whenever I wanted support from him, even when I only needed to vent, he always blamed me and didn't support me at all. All I can say is: Leave. Jeannette Chambers I've support my gf from first year uni till graduate, and she left me for another guy, she said im not interesting:) Romel Cinco I'm sorry to hear that, but as many other told you, if even after talking about it he doesn't want to understand, he sadly never will. Break up. I'm sure you can find someone who will support you as much as you support him, like every couple should do. You Seong Lew Maybe he didnt ask for your support and you are being over-demanding his support but what do i know. U should Indeed be independant to not rely on your partner everytime. But again, what do i know. Nisim Salinas It's wise to be together with someone at the same stage in life as you. One working another studying rarely works,because their life is just so different. Charlotte Arp Leave that fucker alone. He's just using you for his advantage. Leave before too late, trust me Jessica Blakeney Just tell him how you feel. Have a 10 minute discussion about it to find out WHAT'S right. NOT to find out who is right. And if you still can't come to an agreement.. eh fuck 'im Rosa Murphy Leave. It's an unpleasant experience you had to go through, I know and whole heartedly understand. I have been there too. Knocked me out for the better part of a year but in the end it was the right thing to do. Many other comments already said the same so I say it again but short: leave. Your self worth and self love is much more important. Get link Facebook X Pinterest Email Other Apps Comments
Fi Fi Jamieson
Zack Ael
Clara Jo
Jessica Canhigh
Jake Barnes
Mil Lhet
Juanita Lynn
Carmen Helene Malou Hansson
Devonte Grant
Nerwin De Vera
Chyna Dolly
Stacey Baum
Jeannette Chambers
Romel Cinco
You Seong Lew
Nisim Salinas
Charlotte Arp
Jessica Blakeney
Rosa Murphy